More Now Than Ever
2020, the year that never seems to end. 2020, the year of masks, social distancing, shelter in place, oh and a very contentious election. 2020, the year where you can explain away any mishap or difficulty by simply saying, "It's 2020." How do you celebrate Thanksgiving in 2020? Do you even try to celebrate it? Do we actually have anything to be thankful for?
In February of 1995, Phyllis Campbell took a chance and hired a 28 year old with no teaching experience to teach high school math and history. I had a lot to learn about running a classroom and she was the perfect person to shepherd me through that process. I just want to say, "Thank you, Mrs Campbell, for all that you did to shape my career as an educator."
Yes, 2020 has been a strange year, but isn't every year? The word unprecedented has been thrown around a lot this year, but if you think a minute you will realize that every year is unprecedented. SO, how can you be thankful amidst all of these unprecedented days? I would suggest you look to the Apostle Paul. His entire ministry was one unprecedented event after another. It started in blindness, included multiple shipwrecks, he had to flee from several angry crowds, suffered multiple beatings, spent several years in jail, and ended with an execution. That was Paul's life and yet he is also the person that penned these words, "Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." (1 Thes 5:18 NIV)
All of my students have had a hand in molding me into the teacher that I am today. One group requires special thanks though. Coaching volleyball has changed the kind of person I am. Those hours with my teams, facing the trials, pressures, successes, and failures that come with sport have taught me how to recognize the emotional issues that plague teenagers in general and teenage girls in particular. I have always been good at predicting behavior, but I wasn't good with emotions. Well, coaching teenage girls has changed that. I am not going to try to list all of you and risk leaving someone out so, "To all of my volleyball players and those that helped with practices and stats, thank you. I am a better person because of you. You will always be 'my girls'.
So if Paul could be thankful in all things, even when those things included beatings, shipwrecks, jail, and more, surely we can be thankful in the face of this current pandemic. Yes, things are annoying at times, and yes we have to do things differently, but are those really reasons not to be thankful? Paul said to be thankful in all things, not for all things. That is an important distinction. This year has seen a lot of things that I have not been thankful for, but I have continued to be thankful in them.
My life is spent almost exclusively around teenagers, and for the most part I love that. It is what I was called to do. It does have a down side though. I can go long periods of time without having a conversation with another adult that didn't revolve around school and teenagers. A few years ago that was starting to take a bigger toll on me than even I realized. It was then that a friend of mine, Amie Willis, decided to go back to school. She needed help with some of her math and science classes and asked if I could help her. She quickly became my outlet for adult communication. Having another adult I could just be Mike with instead of Mr Matt was more important than I understood at the time. "Amie, thank you for being a great friend and more importantly letting me turn off Mr Matt and just be Mike. That has meant more than you will ever know. It has given me a way to recharge batteries that I didn't realize were running so low."
So, if you are struggling with how to be thankful for Thanksgiving 2020, try what I have done here. There are people that you haven't said thank you to. Find them and tell them thank you. I think you will find that you have a lot more to be thankful for than you realize. You will find you can be thankful in things, even in 2020.